Many couples complain about the loss of interest after a few years of dating or marriage, although keeping the relationship alive and fresh isn’t that big deal. You need to practice some rituals on the daily basis to keep the spark of your long relationship alive.
We can make each other happy with the help of ridiculously easy ways, let’s explore them.
One of the most common reason os losing interest in a relationship is lack of communication or partners lack the ability to listen, if your relationship is going through a tough phase then you better concentrate on listening and understanding the expectation of partner.
Love is not about taking, it’s about giving, and you will be able to give only when you are mentally prepared to listen to the expectations of your partner. A study don’t on the men who cheated on their partner stated “most of the men cheated not because of sex but they cheated because of the lack of communication and connection”
This is the best advice I give to everyone, make daily foreplay a ritual. No matter how tired you are, or how mad you both are on each other, never sleep without foreplay.
This daily foreplay has the power to work wonders in your relationship, have 10-15 minute foreplay like you did when you first met. It will revitalize your sex life and will relieve the daily stress before you sleep.
Give him his personal space:
Another common problem with most of the couples, they lack personal space. It is important for you to understand that personal space is very essential for the healthy relationship. You can’t always glue with your partner all the time spare him some time to spend with his friend at least once or twice a week.
Take a random weekend trip:
Taking time for some random weekend trip is the best thing you can do to restart your sex life, most of the people are suffering from a sedentary lifestyle and daily work stress is ruining your relationship. Commit yourself to have at least one trip every month. I personally prefer to spend 3 days every month
Thank and appreciate:
When was the last time you appreciated your partner? It’s important to let your partner know that you appreciate their effort and it’s important to let them know on a frequent basis.
Another thing you can do is to leave a note for him about how much you love him and why you feel blessed to have him as your life partner.
Take care of your appearance:
Many relationships lacks intimacy because of their physical appearance, couples tends to feel shame about their size and figure, which lead to a lack of intimacy.
Best way to have good sex is to devote 60 minutes for your fitness, you will be able to experience better sex life and a higher degree of confidence with your skin.
Improve your sex life:
In the era of internet technology you have got a lot of resources to improve yourself a life, you can either learn to give some good massage or learn to have better sex.
We all know that the sex at our grandparents time was all about making babies, but the current generation is more inclined towards making the connection and enjoying sex, there are many sex and relation experts available online who are giving free advice to help you achieve better sex life.